don’t spend your nows doing something you hate. Even if you have to do something you love on the side, it’s better to do that with the hope it will become something significant enough to displace your nine-to-five than to suffer in the now.
You’ve heard the term “Velvet Handcuffs.” It describes a job with benefits so compelling, leaving is a non-choice. Even if you hate the work. Gotta feed the kids, pay that mortgage. Velvet Oppression is similar. It is oppression, but oppression